On June 6, Dot made me the happiest man in the world. We solemnized our marriage in a small, intimate ceremony with family and close friends. There will be another ceremony here in the states at a future time.
Since our wedding day, Dot and I have continued to learn more and more about each other. I didn't really think that there was anything else to learn, but, we have found even more things in common than we originally realized. This woman is so amazing and so fantastic. I know for a fact that my decision to marry her was totally correct for me. I cannot see myself being happy with anyone else on a 24/7 basis. Dot completes me. We can tell each other anything without upsetting the other person. We don't have to hold back truths or feelings. We both know that anything that is said is out of a love for each other and respect for our marriage that knows no barriers.
I deeply look forward to the day that Dot can move here to the states and we can actually begin sharing our full lives together. Until then, we have definite plans to travel back and forth as often as vacation times will allow. We also find a way to talk at least twice a day despite a twelve hour difference between our time zones. I'm usually just getting home from work while she's starting her work day and vice versa so it is a challenge. It is one we meet head on though. It is rough. I miss not coming home to her on a daily basis. I miss getting in the car together to drive somewhere whether on business or pleasure. I miss her smile and infectuous optimism. With all this, everytime we see each other is like there's been no break. We pick up exactly where we left off. Long distance relationships and marriages can definitely work. Dot and I are proving that everyday. It does take a little more communication and faith in each other. Thankfully, those are two areas where Dot and I are very strong.
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